Graciousness: a timeless virtue . . . (Click image for video)

Transformation takes time. 

Changing our habitual ways of doing thing takes time. But in a society craving instant gratification, this is a tough concept to accept. We don’t like waiting. We don't have time to be patient. We have a lot to do, and people expect things to be done—all are expecting quick results.

But effecting lasting change takes time.So in your practice, do not have expectations of fast achievements. In fact, don’t have any expectations at all.

Start from where you are, and gradually learn how to put the teachings into practice by starting with things that are easier to change. As you begin to improve in little ways, you will gain the confidence and experience to know how to change in more meaningful ways. Such changing and improving of yourself will take time. Understanding this, patiently give yourself the time you need.

Gradually, as you become more adept at changing, you will even begin to transform negative thoughts and bad habits into those that brighten your world and all who enter it. 

Others choose how they act towards me . . . (Click image for video)