In all endeavors,

seek to avoid mistakes, not win praise. 

Blanket statements are tricky, so let’s just say the vast majority of us like to be praised.

Praise from those entrusted with the responsibility to raise us taught us how to behave respectfully and ethically. It encouraged us to act in ways that enhanced our lives and did not detract from them.

But praise should not drive our behavior because that would make praise our goal when our goal should be to not make mistakes—either technically or ethically. Those who wished us to become honorable adults taught and exemplified honorable behavior and humility.

For whatever reasons, others less fortunate grew up or are now growing up craving praise. At any cost. And so from politicians on Twitter to the neighborhood teenager with an Instagram account, we have people who will do anything for attention, for praise.

A terribly risky, and sad, way to live.